![]() Simpson has since turned away from the life of eating in front of a webcam, moved back to Ohio, and dropped from 600 pounds to 470 in order to take better care of her two children. On the extreme end of the feedee spectrum are people like Donna Simpson, the New Jersey woman and feedee cam-girl who once famously strove to reach 1,000 pounds with the encouragement of her then-fiancé, Philippe Gouamba. And as with BDSM, responsible feeders and feedees take their roles very seriously, and are careful to practice in safe ways that respect their partners' boundaries.īut that isn't always the case. But as with any BDSM relationship, the erotic transaction must be mutual-both parties have to enjoy the weight gain. The feeder-feedee relationship is most often one of a dominant and a submissive, sharing certain characteristics with BDSM culture. "Some of us may fantasize about being immobile but in reality we still want active lives." Like BDSM-safe, sane, consensual," he adds. If you are experiencing health issues due to weight, most feedees will drop pounds until they get to a safe weight. Others might say 165 is just a starting point, and say 200, etc." "I find a female going from 120 to maybe 165 ideal. "Only a small number ever take it to those levels of extreme obesity," Silva notes. While stuffing can be incredibly erotic for some feedees, huge amounts of weight gain are rarely the goal. I love being teased about how fat I am and how fat I will become-being measured, weighed, made to wear clothes that are too tight, so as I eat the buttons pop." Like, if I'm eating, I get a reward with stimulation, or spanked/pegged if I don't eat like a good piggy. I enjoy being encouraged to eat with sexual pleasure. "In private, you can get wild and mix sex directly with feeding. "Sometimes the hottest are in public, where you have to try to not look so turned on," says Lumpkin. I love waking up in the morning and examining my body in the mirror and trying to visually track my gain."įor others, feeding can range from a weekly indulgence to planning something that's more of a production: "Basically, food with foreplay," Silva says. "I eat almost constantly and am rarely seen without food. "I eat carbs, and a lot of them," says Chessner. 'I love being teased about how fat I am and how fat I will become-being measured, weighed, made to wear clothes that are too tight, so as I eat the buttons pop.'įor some, the act of feeding can be as simple as eating throughout the day. A direct or indirect feeder partner isn't always necessary for feedees to enjoy the pleasure that comes from a love of fatness and feeling themselves get bigger, or the playful and sometimes not-so-playful humiliation at their gains. " is mostly personal, but I do get encouragement from feeders on Kik," says feedee Kyle Chessner. But more often than not, the feeder-feedee relationship isn't there from the beginning in any direct way. Gaining is something that many feedees do on their own in the beginning, perhaps with some encouragement from people in the online feeder community. So I finally settled on mutual gaining, as both arouse me." "At the same time, I found gaining weight myself to be a turn-on-being fed by a female feeder. I would think about what they would look like with 20 extra pounds, then 40, etc., and found that very erotic," he tells me. I liked the idea of girls getting fatter. Mutual gainer Martin Silva reflects: "It started pretty young-I'd say, like, age 14. It gave me a thrill even before I knew it was sexual." I also loved playing in the mud and being messy with food. When I was a kid, I would stuff my clothes with pillows and pretend to be super-fat. "I loved the way their body looked and I loved seeing them eat. "I was always attracted to fat people," explains Patch Lumpkin, a longstanding feedee and gainer within the community. In order to get a more complete understanding of what it actually means to be part of the feederism community, I headed to Fantasy Feeder, an online hub where those who "want to be fat or to fatten" come together to chat about everything from recipes and lifestyle tips to weight gain and BDSM.įor many of those who are into feederism, an interest in weight and fatness came at a young age. ![]() It gave me a thrill even before I knew it was sexual.' 'When I was a kid, I would stuff my clothes with pillows and pretend to be super-fat.
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